Posted by Lisa Iantorno from Brampton on Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 12:21 pm:
Im so sorry for your loss! Brandon will always remain in the hearts of those who cared so much about him. Always try to remember that God will help you through this very trying time!

God Bless You All
Posted by Michelle Main from Lefroy, ON L0L 1W0 on Monday, November 17, 2008 at 10:13 pm:
May you find peace & comfort in the wonderful memories that you shared with Brandon.

I pray for your family's healing every night.

Michelle Main & Family
Posted by Sandra Trainor from Barrie on Monday, November 17, 2008 at 7:41 pm:
So sorry for your loss Crisp family. May you find peace one day...hold each other close.
Posted by Pinto Family from Barrie Ontario on Monday, November 17, 2008 at 11:33 am:
To the Crisp family,

You all are in our thoughts and prayers, wishing you much stregth in your time of need. Our family has felt every step, and continues with sincere condolences. We are in the same community and will always be there for support. Respecting your privacy we watched from a far, but in our hearts we have stood right next to you.
Posted by Bob Gardner from Cambridge On on Monday, November 17, 2008 at 9:41 am:
I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you in your time of grief. Your faimly are in my prayers
Posted by Manon Tremblay & Family from Ottawa, Ontario on Sunday, November 16, 2008 at 7:48 pm:
Our sincere sympathy from our family to yours...

Grieving family of Angel baby girl
Posted by Barry, Audrey And Scott Elson from Sackville, NB on Sunday, November 16, 2008 at 5:22 pm:
Steve .Angelika and family

Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your son Brandon. We remember the times when our son played with Predators and Brandon was in goal. Those were happier times. Keep good memories close in your heart. Our thoughts are with you.

Posted by Linda Hallam from Belmont Crescent, Midhurst on Saturday, November 15, 2008 at 8:23 pm:
Angelika I am amazed at how you are coping. I have shed a lot of tears for Brandon ever since he went missing. I know I will hold Brandon in my heart as long as I live. Tasha, Samantha and Steve - your letters to Brandon were such a wonderful tribute to your young man. God bless you all.
Posted by Fr. Gordon Kennedy from Immaculate Conception Church, Formosa, Ont. on Saturday, November 15, 2008 at 2:00 pm:
Hello you Dear People: Thanks for offering us your wonderful example of love for your family. This Sunday in my homily, I am using Brandon's story as an example of how your love for him (and what you are doing with it) is an analogy of God the Father's love for us. Thanks for the dignity which you have shown us all. We in Formosa are with you in prayer. - Fr. Kennedy
Posted by linda manolikakis from ottawa ontario 613-521-3051 on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 11:01 pm:
every time i see brandon's picture my throat clogs up and and my eyes fill with tears. My heart hurts so much for you all and for him. I can imagine everything that you must be feeling and thinking inside yourself that must be just screaming to come out. God will help you to get through this. You were not wrong to punish Brandon. It was just reverse psychology gone wrong. and it could have happened to anyone. Why God chose your family no one knows. God rest his beautiful soul.
Posted by Valerie Rodd from Coldwater, Ontario on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 8:52 pm:
I spent the day with over 1500 people saying goodbye to Brandon. I'd like to send my love, thoughts and prayers to the Crisp family and the Turnsek family. Brandon will never be forgotten.
Posted by Adamo Family from Milton, Ontario on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 6:55 pm:
Although we did not know Brandon his story has really touched us. We would like to send our deepest sympathy to the entire Crisp Family.

RIP Brandon

The Adamo Family
Posted by Liz from Innisfil on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 3:09 pm:
As one of the many people who joined the search hoping to be a part of a happy ending, I thought I'd just let you know how very sorry I am for your loss. Find strength in knowing how many people's hearts go out to you and are thinking of you and your family at this most difficult time. I
Posted by Randi MacGillivray & Kemp Vincent from Metroland North Media- Bracebridge on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 3:01 pm:
I know that you feel the love and support that so many of us want you to have during this time of loss for your family. Although there are no right words at this moment to ease your pain. Trust me when I say there will be a day when you will see the sun shining again, and notice the rainbows and all it's colours. Please know in Muskoka we are thinking of you. Take care of yourselves and each other.
Posted by Carol Bell from 109 College Cres Barrie on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 10:24 am:
To the Crisp Family,
I have a 16 year old Brandon of my own who has Aspergers syndrome. I know only to well what it is like to have a child obsessed with x-box etc. As parents you did exactly the right thing and I have had to do it many times myself with my Brandon. I feel that your Brandon's death has brought well needed attention to the ever growing problems that today's young people face. I wanted to be at the funeral today but have a broken leg and could not find a place to park close enough to the church so I am writing this message instead. My thoughts are with you and my heart is full. Parenting is the most difficult job there is and anyone would have done the same thing in your position. My daughter Rayanna met your son on 2 occasions and said he was a great kid. Brandon will always be thought of with love and respect in our community and I only wish things could have turned out differently for him. I believe his death will not be in vain. I believe it will create awareness and maybe make some other parents and teens look differently at their lives and relationships. I will be thinking about you and hoping you can all find a way to grieve and carry on with your lives the way Brandon would have wanted you to.

With Loving Thoughts ,

Carol Bell
Posted by Amanda Tremblay from Barrie on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 8:10 am:
My heart and deepest sympathy goes out to all of the family.
Posted by Gayle Enns from Barrie, Ontario on Friday, November 14, 2008 at 12:34 am:
Although I wasn't lucky enough to know Brandon, I have listened to all the news coverage, hoping and praying for a happier outcome. He was a beautiful young boy and has touched the hearts of so many people all over. He will always be remembered there is no doubt about that. You all must be so proud of him. Rejoice in the wonderful things he said or did and the many pranks he played. My heart and deepest sympathy goes out to all of the family.
Posted by Diane Stricker from Innisfil on Thursday, November 13, 2008 at 11:39 pm:
I'm so sorry for your loss... I have cried daily for you. I wish I could somehow take away the pain you must be feeling. All I can do is pray that God will give you peace and resolution one day. Please, please know that Brandon knew how much you loved him, and don't ever doubt that he loved you with all his heart.
Posted by Dave & Jean DaPra from Minesing on Thursday, November 13, 2008 at 9:20 pm:
May God give you all the strength and courage you need to sope with your loss. He will never be forgotten. He was a very lucky boy.
God Bless your family

Posted by Lee Anne & Paul Coolen from Barrie on Thursday, November 13, 2008 at 9:15 pm:
To the Crisp Family,
My thoughts are many. I look at my 4 year old as he sleeps and think of the amount of memories I have of him and those little ones that I have already let fade. Then I look at my almost thirteen year old and think of how easily it could have been him in place of your son. After what I now know of Brandon, my heart tells me he was on his way home and only on his way home because of the love and comfort he felt from his family. While your obstacles are still many - and those only you may know - please remember that we will now always remember Brandon. Your truthful and poignant words throughout this ordeal have already made a difference in the lives of my children and others.
I wish you the best as you try to keep your, "Chin Up." and I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
Posted by nuvo home products from Barrie on Thursday, November 13, 2008 at 7:13 pm:
To the Crisp Family,

We would like to send our deepest sympathy to the whole Crisp family especially the parents of such a beauitful boy. As parents ourselves we can't not imagine the pain and sorrow you must be going through. You are in our hearts and our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Tony and Linda Amaro
Vince and Anna Petrozza
Danny and Anna Pulsone

From all of us at nuvo home products
Posted by Ann & Dan Scott from Sarnia Ontario on Thursday, November 13, 2008 at 4:48 pm:
To Brandon's Family

We have kept you in our prayers since we heard of Brandon's disappearence. As parents ourselves, we can only imagine the pain you must be dealing with. We wish this outcome would have been much happier for everyone. Please except our Deepest, Deepest Sympathy and know that people you have never met care. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. God Bless....Sincerely Ann & Dan Scott
Posted by Ashley Hubbert from Oro Station on Thursday, November 13, 2008 at 12:46 pm:
This situation definately touched the hearts of many. I send my most sincere condolences to you, your family, your friends. I cannot imagine what you are going through. This situation has certainly made us all open our eyes ... love a little more, hug a little more! Crisp family- you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Fran & Steve Charles and family from Barrie, Ontario on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 10:12 pm:
Words cannot express our heartfelt sympathy to your family. We were truly saddened by the tragic news but please know that Brandon will forever be remembered in the hearts of everyone he touched, near and far. He brought a community together and had the nation watching and praying for his safe return. God Bless and may all your beautiful memories help ease your pain.
Posted by Stephanie, Bill, Spencer, Andrew, Lucas, Connor, Ethan and Liam from Shannon Street, Barrie on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 9:11 pm:
Our hearts sank and the tears rolled down all our cheeks when the news came about Brandon. My first thoughts were of you and how difficult a time this has been for all of you. Our condolences to you. Stay strong, our family the community, country, and even the world will support you through this difficult time.
R.I.P. Brandon Crisp, you will be missed by all.
Posted by Shawna Bailey from Barrie on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 8:09 pm:
To the Crisp family;
My words cannot express my sadness and grief for you. Your son has touched all of our hearts; every night I have prayed for your family and your son.
I know that your hearts are heavy, but please do not give up on God; you need him so much right now.
My prayers will now be that He holds you so close, in the small way that this community wanted to hold Brandon.
We will be giving to your charity to keep Brandon's memory alive; every time that I enroll my child in an activity, I will give money on behalf of both of them. When they are older I will tell them of how one boy can touch so many people.
He was very lucky.
Posted by The Grewal Family from Barrie on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 4:42 pm:
Dear Crisp Family,
Our greatest condolences to you. we know how much you all are going through. Its very hard to deal when our loved one dies. I have two sons and a daughter and my oldest son is almost 7 in dec. The day we came to know about that Brandon went missing... our whole family prayed for his safe arrival and also to give you the strength . But the day we came to know that he was gone forever.. my kids and myself could not stop crying.. I don't know why but we could feel all the pain that you have gone through.. Our prayers and good wishes are always with you.. May God give u the strength to cope up with this enormous loss.. God bless you all .
Posted by Posted by The Somuah family from Toronto ONtario on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 4:33 pm:
There is not enough words I can use to express your deep loss.I am very sorry for the pain your are feeling in your heart.I prayed for your son to returned safely.But God must of had a better plan keep strong you are in our prayers.
Posted by The Anderson Family from Barrie, Ontario on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 3:44 pm:
Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are in the loss of your beautiful Brandon. We all prayed from day one, that he would return home safely and are now heartsickened by the tragic outcome. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Crisp family and know that we share in your grief. Brandon will not be forgotten.

May God bless all of you and give you strength.

God bless you, Brandon...rest in peace.
Posted by Lisa Othen from Barrie, Ontario on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 2:35 pm:
Brandon
We have all done one time or another.
Had an argument with our father and mother.
Left the house filled with anger inside.
Needing time for it to subside.
We thought they were wrong and were right.
Here we go again the same old fight.
That I am not a little kid no more.
Into our room with a slam of the door.
You were only doing what we all have done.
Telling them that from the house I will run.
You could not foresee it would end this way.
United with your parents you will be one day...
You have touched the hearts of all of us..Gone but will never be forgotten..
Posted by Katie Russell from on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 1:47 pm:
Dear Crisp Family:

I know what you are going though isn't easy, I went to school with Brandon he was a great person to be around. I'm sorry for your loss. Stay strong. All of my payers and thoughts are with you Crisp family.

RIP Brandon, you will be missed but not forgotten ♥
Posted by Bruce Hain from Innisfil on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 10:52 am:
Dear Angelika:
It's been my good fortune and privilege to have worked with you on two occasions over the past 10 years. I also remember meeting up with you when you managed the jewellery store at Georgian Mall.
Throughout the years, your warmth, compassion and genuine interest in other people's lives has always been very apparent to me.
I can only say how fortunate Brandon was to have you as his mother. I hope you can take some solace in the outpouring of sympathy and understanding the Barrie community is now sharing with you and your family.
God bless.

Bruce Hain and family
Posted by Linda Noble from London on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 9:53 am:
Words cannot express the sorrow that your family is going though at this moment. You will have cherished memories and a wealth of support from family, friends and everyone who's heart this death has touched. As parents, you did show love and concern for your son. This is an awakening to so many families who live in a world of computers and electronic games. It is sad that this realization stems from the death of Brandon. Your son/brother is an angel in heaven and will never be forgotten.
Posted by Lisa Othen from Barrie, Ontario on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 9:43 am:
To the Parents of Brandon
We try to be the best parents which is a hard task today.
Show me one child who always does as we say.
They think they are ready for the world so young.
Little do they know their lives have just begun.
We try to understand and give them some space.
So that instead of anger we'll see a smile on their face.
And we all know when its time for discipline.
They sometimes shut us out and won't even listen.
That we are wrong and just being mean.
That famous line "I'm not a kid, but a teen".
When we try to explain, there's life outside of the house.
They will just ignore you with the click of a mouse.
So trust me when I say as parents your not alone.
We have all grounded our children from their games, PC's and phone.
So don't blame yourselves that you did the wrong thing.
None of us parents know what the outcome will bring.

Posted by Linda Noble from London on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 9:42 am:
Words cannot express the sorrow that your family is going though at this moment. You will have cherished memories and a wealth of support from family, friends and everyone who's heart this death has touched. As parents, you did show love and concern for your son. This is an awakening to so many families who live in a world of computers and electronic games. It is sad that this realization stems from the death of Brandon. Your son/brother is an angel in heaven and will never be forgotten.
Posted by Carol Biesel from Alcona on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 9:37 am:
Brandon was lucky to have a wonderful family, and please do not forget that. My deepest sympathy.
Posted by The Rogers Family from Barrie on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 8:46 am:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Crisp family. Your son was a beautiful boy who touched alot of hearts in this community and around the world. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted by The Rogers Family from Barrie on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at 8:46 am:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Crisp family. Your son was a beautiful boy who touched alot of hearts in this community and around the world. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Judi Willcocks from Ajax, Ontario on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 11:10 pm:
My thoughts are with Brandons family. I am deeply saddened but also there has been such a heartfelt feeling from all parents , grandparents, children. Teenagers understand how fragile we are all. My family lives in Barrie and my great nephew goes to Brandons school. His live has touched so many. We will remember.
God Bless
Posted by The Bussieres Family from Hawkestone on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 10:03 pm:
As parents, we can only imagine the magnitude of pain your family is experiencing. In the upcoming months, we pray you will be able to free yourselves of any guilt or blame for the tragic outcome. As parents we would have done the same and there are parents everyday that too set the same limits that you were required to do as a parent. Brandon and your family have been in our thoughts and will continue to be as we continue to feel so saddened by your loss. I had the pleasure of dealing with Angelika at her previous place of business in the Georgian Mall, and I remember how kind and friendly she was and what an interest she took in my two young boys and the encouraging words she offered me as a parent. I only wish I could do the same....Brandon was very lucky to have you for his mom and may your memories at some point bring you and your family some peace and joy. Take Care
Posted by Carol Lamb from Barrie on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 9:46 pm:
Dear Crisp Family,
I cannot imagine how difficult this is on you all. My thoughts are with you - as is the thoughts and prayers of millions of other people all over Canada. That's a lot of shoulders here for you!
My hope is that you can take solice in knowing Brandon pulled together a community and brought out the best of thousands and thousands of great people. We all hoped for his safe return and are greatly saddened by his death.
Posted by Christine Brown from Barrie, Ontario on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 9:14 pm:
Angelika, Steve, Natasha and Samantha,

My thoughts have been with you from the moment I learned of Brandon’s disappearance. I cannot image the pain and grief that you are feeling. I can only hope that the months ahead will offer you the time to begin to heal and find comfort in each other.
Brandon deeply touched not only a community, but also a nation. An entire nation worried with you, held hope for you and now mourns for and with you.
This wasn’t the ending we were expecting. I am truly sorry that it ended this way.
May the support of each other, your friends, Brandon’s friends, and an entire community help you find the strength you will need to carry you through your darkest hours.
Brandon will always hold a special place in my heart.
Posted by The Unick Family from Barrie on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 8:26 pm:
For the Crisp Family,

Words cannot express the sorrow we feel at this tragic turn of events. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all from the beginning and we share in your grief. If there is anything hopeful in all of this it is that it has brought so many together in the spirit of hope and forced us to think about the things we take for granted. May you in time find peace knowing Brandon is in God's hands.
Posted by Nancy & Joe Marcello from Barrie on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 8:05 pm:
Angelika, Steve and family,

We offer you our deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May God give you and your family the strength and courage you need to cope with your loss.

God Bless your family,

Nancy and Joe Marcello and family
Posted by Barbara H. from Barrie ON on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 7:08 pm:
To the Crisp family,

I wish to extend to you my deepest sympathy. Your son was a beautiful child that will be sadly missed in our community. Although I did not know him personally, as a mother of two and a secondary teacher, it is heartbreaking to have witnessed the loss of such a young and vibrant youth. He will be not be forgotten.

I hope and trust that your Faith will help you through this difficult and challenging time.

My prayers are with all of you.

Barb H.
Barrie ON
Posted by Elyse Copland from Barrie, Ontario on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 7:04 pm:
Crisp Family:
On behalf of the Copland Family, I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. My mother and I particularly cannot stop thinking about Brandon and the fact that we along with everyone in the community hoped that there would be a happy ending to his story. We have followed Brandon's story since we heard of it. I just wanted to let you know that I go to school in Orillia and on the drive home I would take Ridge Road in hopes that I would find some sign of Brandon on the way home. I hope that your memories of Brandon and your faith help to ease the pain for your Family. Our Hearts are with you...
Copland Family
Posted by Lee Christiansen from 193 Edgehill Dr, #312 on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 6:22 pm:
I can only say how truly sorry i am for the loss of your son, I too am a mother of a 16 year old, with ADHD who has put me through alot with staying out and not calling home many times over his teenage years, the pain, hurt, terror, the feelings of helplessness, i pray to god to give you strength to get through this, it will in time make you stronger, although you don't see this now. I am so very..very...sorry....you are all in my prayers!
Posted by S.Petherick from Barrie on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 6:10 pm:
Dear Crisp family
We are sending you our deepest sympathy. I did not know Brandon but I have children and I honestly can't imagine what you are going through because when I think of Brandon I start to cry and feel sick. I hope and pray that you find comfort in each other and everyone around you. Whether you know us or not we will always be a part of your family. God bless you all
Posted by Christine&Joe Clay from Barrie on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 6:02 pm:
Our thoughts and prayers
are with you. God bless
the Crisp family.
Posted by Shelly Crisp (Tilley) from Barrie Ontario on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 6:00 pm:
Angelika Steve Samantha &Natasha

My family & I would like to say how sorry we are in your loss of Brandon. We have followed your story from day one & we all prayed for his safety. Our hearts are with you in this time of need. He will never be forgotten by any of us. God bless you all.
Posted by from on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 5:40 pm:
I am so sorry that Brandon crisp died I wish he was still alive well everybody does.
Posted by stephanie w from barrie ont on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 5:13 pm:
i have my famliy and friends live outside of barrie for help
i ask them if u see him call 911 my workind dog and i did lots of look out brandon last 3 weeks .
any way we hear sad news
i really sorry that he off like that .
i will keep u and your family in my prayer
god bless
stephanie w of barrie ont
Posted by Janis and Mike Ramsay from Barrie on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 4:10 pm:
Angelika, Steve, Samantha, Natasha and the extended family:

We have lived through this ordeal with you, and shared in your hope for a happy reunion.
Now we share in your grief.
Our sincere condolences go to your family. We are very sorry for your loss.
Whether it's today, tomorrow or a year from now, we are here to support you.
Brandon will never be forgotten. His story has made us more aware of the fragility of life, and the strength of the human spirit.


Posted by STEVE M. from OTTAWA, ON on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 4:06 pm:
My deepest sympathy to the parents and sisters of Brandon Crisp.

If the moral of this tragedy opens even a single door of communication between parent and child anywhere in the country, Brandon will not have died in vain.

His demise leaves a legacy of untold wealth if others learn the lesson inherent in this sorrowful scenario: The critical importance of family members to communicate, to share and respect each other's feelings.

Take time to talk intimately and share your innermost thoughts; take time to listen intently to what you are being told; take time to give your love without reserve so that you may be worthy to receive it whole-heartedly in return.

Brandon has left all of us much to contemplate. May his demise open the door to unlimited dialog between child and parent from coast to coast. We have so much to learn from each other!

Our country will forever be a less beautiful place because of Brandon's untimely demise. But if his legacy is permitted to perpetuate his memory, he will live in our hearts until the end of time.

STEVE M.
Perth ON




Posted by Suzanne Legue and Shaun Sauve from Midhurst, Ontario on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 2:56 pm:
Dear Angelika, Steve and Family;
Today, as we paid tribute to the courageous Canadians who sacrificed so much for our country, know that we also said a prayer and shed a tear for you and your beloved Brandon. Never before has a child captured the hearts and hopes of nation. We cannot imagine the depth of your grief. May the community's outpouring of sympathy give you the strength to carry on, and honour Brandon's memory.
Posted by Amanda Smith from Barrie, ON on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 12:47 pm:
We all feel extremely saddened for your loss. I hope god keeps you strong on this journey of pain and healing. Keeps strong! The city of Barrie is with you for all your time of need. God Bless
Posted by Mark Melnick from Mishawaka, Indiana on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 12:33 pm:
Your loss is felt by all of us who have followed this story on the news. As the father of a 15 year old boy, I am deeply touched and extend my sympathy to you. Though words can be empty in comparison to the pain you feel in your hearts, know that you are in our prayers.
Posted by Denise Dow from Niagara falls on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 11:56 am:
I followed the story of your son on the news and was greatly saddened by the outcome. I have a 8 year old son and I cannot imagine the grief you are going through right now. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Hold on to the good memories.God Bless and peace to you.
The Dow Family
Posted by Sandra Turnsek from Newmarket on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 11:34 am:
Anna and Steve, Sammy and Natasha,

You are all in my thoughts and prayers every moment. My pain is nothing compared to yours. I wish I could take some away.

I will always hold Binky in my heart, remembering all the times we got together - the zoo, the birthday parties, the family gatherings. Brandon will always have a place beside us.

Love, Aunt Sandy
Posted by from on Tuesday, November 11, 2008 at 8:43 am:
Dear Crisp Family,
My heartfelt sympathy to all of you at this very sad and difficullt time.
You are in my prayers.
Brandon - may you rest in peace in the arms of the Angels.

L. West, Barrie, Ontario
Posted by Jane Robertson from 714 Brownell Dr. Kincardine, On. on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 11:28 pm:
I feel as though you are my extended family, even though we have not yet met. Keep your faith and try to remember that your son/ brother would want you to remember the good times. I cannot claim to understand your pain but I do know that God will help you cope and one day reveal His plan
Posted by Amy Kiezebrink - Barrie Advance from Angus, Ontario on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 7:52 pm:
Angelika and Family,
I don't know where to begin to express the immense sorrow and heartache I feel for you, your friends and your family. I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and my prayers.
God Bless.
Posted by Ken Yates from Tulsa, Oklahoma USA on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 2:11 pm:
My thoughts and prayers are with all of You who knew Brandon. I too lost a son 11 yrs. ago and it`s something that You will find that only days , months ,and years of time passing that will heal You more than anything. God Bless All of You and give each of You courage and strength to get through this.
Posted by Petra Conn from Toronto on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 2:02 pm:
I used to live in Barrie and my son was also in his teens at that time. He too would storm out in anger at things which, in hindsight, seemed trivial. I understand the situation you were in at the time, but no one could predict such a terrible outcome as you have experienced. Please try not to blame yourselves. This was an awful set of circumstances that resulted in the loss of a lifetime. Please believe that I share your grief, and wish you some semblance of peace during this sad, sad period.
Posted by Joanne Patry from Pembroke, Ontario on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 2:00 pm:
I was deeply shocked by the tragic news of Brandon's death. I prayed so hard that he would come home, and I feel that he was on his way home. I would like to extend my deepest condolences to Brandon's family.

ps. I know what it is to be stuck in a fantasy world, I have been an online gamer for the last 10 years. I know how Brandon felt. He didn't want to be there, but he just couldn't stop himself.
Posted by D. Luciani from Brampton, Ontario on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 1:14 pm:
I have been following the search for Brandon intently since his disappearance and was heartbroken to learn he is not going home safe and sound. As a high school teacher, this has been particularly difficult as everytime I saw Brandon's face, I saw my students. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. God bless.
Posted by Paula and Anne-Marie Hendry from 109 Lion's Gate Blvd, Barrie on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 10:55 am:
Our hearts are heavy and cannot even begin to understand the grief and pain of loosing your son/brother/friend, having never walked through someting like this. Paula, as a student at St. Joe's and myself as a mother, we are not sure how I would ever heal, but we know to Whom we would run to - Our Heavenly Father who knows exactly what it means to loose a Son. He would have every feeling and emotion you would ever experience and only He would be able to help you heal one day at a time. We pray that you would lean heavily on Him and walk in HIs strength relying on Jesus and forming that relationship with Him.
His promises are absolute truth - He will never leave you nor forsake you.
We hope you are comforted by the continual outpouring of prayers from the school kids/families and county and country. We don't understand why God allows this, but we have to believe He has a greater purpose that we can't see yet. We are never ready for the finality of death but we know God has Brandon in Glory where we will one day meet again.
Our deepest condolences. We will hold you up to God in prayer always.
Posted by Trish Donahue from The Hamilton Spectator on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 9:25 am:
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by Ken Marks from Innisfil on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 8:47 am:
Terry, Angelika, and kids...my family wishes to express our condolences to yours. Brandon's story hit way too close to home. We took part in the weekend volunteer search and felt so attached in wanting to help bring Brandon home. We are heartbroken and so sorry for your loss. We never knew Brandon Crisp but we will never forget him....
Posted by Sean Patterson from 35 oren BLVD Barrie Ontario on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 7:48 am:
Hello My name is Sean Patterson I am a local Barrie citizen.I saw a flyer on the sidewalk for Brandon before I heared people talking about Brandon which means I must of been one of the first few to see the flyers.I instantly wanted to pray for Brandon so I stopped and looked down at the sidewalk to read the paper,I prayed to God that he would be okay and safe,I even told God all the info on the sheet about Brandon,to help,even though God already would know everything.A few weeks later I find this tradgedy of Brandon passing away so I am devistated and confused.Everyone is really special in this world only get one chance,and it makes me sad to think of Brandon out in the cold not knowing what happened or what went through his mind.God works in myterious ,I may not understand:(but..I just.. I really pray that somehow Brandon is at peace and eternally safe.I sense so much love for Brandon all around,I cry though I did not personally know him.That has never happened before so this was a very special child.I pray the best for his parents fully in every way.May everyone somehow find peace in this horribly shocking situation,knowing atleast that the search is over and noone has to worry of his where abouts.I just want to express love and a big group hug to everyone on behalf of the Golden life of Brandon Crisp.Peace on Earth I pray in Christ Jesus.
p.s. The sentence never coming home is extremley intense,the word never,really digs in my heart,when I found out that Brandon did not make it home.What his parents could feel I can only imagine.God loves us all though and has a plan. God will reunite Brandon and His family,because God does not take pleasure in these things happening even though alot of people get so mad at God.It is the time we need God more then ever.God does not fail us we fail to listen back to him.If we have faith and love eachother,everyone will end up where we are suppose to be,in love and peace....You tell me a better idea
love to all
AMen
Sean Patterson
Posted by Ken, Cathy and Rebekah Dyck from 12201 Pine Valley Drive Woodbridge, On on Monday, November 10, 2008 at 7:47 am:
We are deeply hurting with you and feel your immense pain at the news and loss of your beloved son. May God's grace and mercy carry you through these painful days and may his strength uphold you and give you peace and rest to let him go into God's hands.
Posted by The St. Amour Family from Barrie Ontario on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 10:07 pm:
An entire community worried with you, searched with you, held hope with you and now mourns with you....

I did not know Brandon, nor do I know your family, but s a member of the Barrie community, that has a 15 year old son in hockey, I do know people that remembered Brandon from his hockey days...Those, like myself, that didn't know him, felt like we did... We cannot imagine the pain your family must be feeling...

Our hearts go out to you and pray that God gives you the strength to overcome the pain and sorrow and comfort you in this time of need...

May Brandon rest in peace.....

God Bless


Posted by Stenta Family from Richmond Hill on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 1:56 pm:
We have shared your pain throughout this entire ordeal and are
heartsick at the tragic outcome. Of all
the tragic stories that we hear or read about, this really hit home. We are truly sorry for your loss. May Brandon rest in peace.
Posted by Tamara and Hannah de la Vega Bryon from Huntsville on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 1:51 pm:
To Brandon's parents and siblings

Find strength and solace in your memories... time really does heal
We are truly sorry for your loss

Posted by Corey Fagan from Beamsville on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 1:44 pm:
To the Crisp family,
I am deeply sadden for your lost of your son. No one can know the pain you are going though. From the first day I heard Brandon was missing I followed the story every day and each day I hope and wished he would come home.
Brandon may be gone but he will never be forgotten. He will live on in are hearts and in are memories. Brandon has touched so many of us with his smile that there will always be people talking about him.

Brandon, I wished you could of made it home. You will be missed very much. Rest in Peace
Posted by Catherine Luscombe from Barrie on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 12:59 pm:
I was one of the many mothers who looked at Brandon's beautiful picture and saw the face of my own son and went to search for him. I was completely heartbroken to hear the news and am so deeply, deeply sorry for your loss. There are no words. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Brandon is an angel who touched all of our lives and he is now resting in God's arms and Loving Presence waiting to be reunited with you. God Bless You. Catherine Luscombe
Posted by Jennifer & Jade Harris and family from Innisfil, Ont. on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 12:23 pm:
Angelika & Steve
As parents, we can only begin to understand what you are feeling. Our prayers have been with you from the beginning and will continue to be, as you face the coming days. Find your peace with God and know that Brandon is with him now, were one day you will see him again.

Remember his life and treasure those memories, and use the support of each other and the community to help you thru this.

God Bless
The Harris Family

Posted by Mark Goodale from Torstar Media Group Television on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 12:03 pm:
My wife Stacy and I have you in our thoughts and prayers.Our sincerest condolensces are with you.
Posted by Catherine Hall from Metroland corporate sales on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 11:10 am:
Angelika & Steve:
My deepest sympathies to you and your family in this moment of grief. As parent I cannot imagine the pain you must be feeling in losing a child. Do not blame yourself. You did everything any good parent would do. He is now in God's hands. We are all thinking about you and express our deepest sympathies.
Posted by The Stephens Family from Collingwood on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 10:00 am:
To the entire Crisp family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always at this time and for the years to come. I truly am so sad of the outcome. There is no rule book for parents and we do what we can to help and guide our children. I've cried many tears for a child that I didn't know and for all of you in this tragic moment. Please know that he will be in my heart for quite some time and although many people will help in the time to come, know that he is now with the angels to watch over him. May God bless all of you and give you strength.
Posted by Patty & Jim Bowman from Hamilton , ON on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 3:55 am:
To the Crisp Family;
We cannot imagine the pain you are feeling at this time, we can only try to understand. Our hearts are filled with great sadness as we prayed and hoped with everyday that Brandon was not found, there was a better chance he could come home to you. Brandon is home now, with God, and the love that poured out for Brandon made him for a brief period of time a member of everyones family. My wish for your family is that with time, the memories of Brandon will somehow heal . The loss of a child is something no Parent should endure. Our deepest condolences for your Family.
Patty&Jim
Posted by Michelle from London, Ontario on Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 12:15 am:
I have a three year old son. I cannot imagine the pain you must feel. I am only starting to realize that as parents, my husband and I can only rely on our judgements and hope for the best, just as you did.
As I watch my son grow, I will think of Brandon and remember to never take life and love forgranted.
I pray that in time, your treasured memories of Brandon will replace some of the pain.
My deepest sympathies..Michelle
Posted by Melissa Campbell from Midland Onatrio on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 9:59 pm:
I am so sorry to hear about your boy! I have 4 children myself and i cant imagine how hard and diffiult this would be for you all, God bless your family I am so sorry about your loss!! Brandon will never be forgotten! Love you Brandon Godbless you and your family!
Posted by Heather,Brad,Christopher,Alyssa& Braden McIntyre from Collingwood,Ont on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 8:36 pm:
To Angelika,Steve & Family,
To say that we are sorry for your loss is the biggest understatement I have ever made. Our hearts bleed for you all at this very difficult time.
From the first day we heard your beautiful son was missing it became our mission to support you and your family in any way we could! As the day's passed and the sorrow of your anguish touched our hearts thru the media we never gave up hope and prayed that Brandon would be found! We vigilantly sent you all positive light,love and asked that god and the universe surrond your young man with the warmth & protection he needed till we could all get to him!

Although the outcome was not at all the "happy ending" a nation was yearning for it has become quite clear to me that your son positivley was an "Angel of Love".... His journey however tragic united a nation and reminded us all of the importance of love!

To Angelika & Steve,
You implemented one of the hardest loves a parent has to give. "Tough Love" is abosoulutley necessary in moulding our "greatest little treasures" to become accountable & present in their journey to becoming strong independant adults. That is our job and our duty as parents!

No one could have expected the reaction or the consequence this type of love took on that day however you did express your love!
Someday once all of the emotional trama subsides my wish is that you'll find some peace in knowing that even though he walked away from your life mad that day, he walked away knowing deep down inside that regardless of emotion "he was loved unconditionally!"
Our arms of love reach to you all and will always be there to hold you tightly!

To the young people of the world much like my children,
Brandon gave you a gift to insightfully see past emotion and learn that love comes in many different forms, some you might not like nor agree with!

Breathe,remember this and travel down your path thru life with the memory of his message held tightly to your heart!!!

And finally to the memory of the beautiful blonde haired boy who I never new personally,
Your spirit will live forever in our minds and we will hold you close to our hearts..... May you rest in peace beautiful "Angel Boy", your time on earth will never be forgotten and your spirit will live on in the Love of a nation!!!
Rest in peace.
Posted by Lynn from Barrie on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 6:08 pm:
My wish for your family is that the pain will eventually subside some for you and that you can find strength from one another to help each other through this. Hard to believe that someone you never knew could have such an impact on your life. God be with you and your family.
Posted by David from Elmira on on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 5:36 pm:
As a parent you love your kids with all your heart.At this tragic time our hearts are broken to.We all love Brandon as our own, remember try to be strong.Were praying for you.
Posted by Merlin from West Coast, USA on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 3:38 pm:
You loved your son enough to set boundaries and to have expectations of his behaviour. You were trying to save him. Hindsight is always crystal clear. Parenthood is full of risks and we are only ever motivated by trying to save our children.....believe in your good intentions, I do. Courage and Grace be with you.
Posted by Deb from Muskoka on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 1:58 pm:
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Having lost a young son myself I know the pain you bear. Take strength from your loving family, friends and all who love and pray for you.
Posted by Marina & Nick from Mississauga on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 1:31 pm:
Steve & Angelika,

We pray that you may be given the strength & courage to bear your invaluable loss. We have kids the same age as Brandon, and our hearts are torn by this tragedy. Rest assured of our prayers for you.

Brandon, we so very much hoped that you would be found safe & sound, but now we pray that you enjoy eternal bliss.

God Bless!

Posted by Elizabeth from Whitby, ON. on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 1:03 pm:
This story brings tears to my eyes. I'm sorry for your loss. Try to keep your chin up and remain strong, I know it is hard. I will pray for you and your family. R.I.P. Brandon.

From Elizabeth
Posted by Valerie & Doug Samson from Oro Station, Ontario on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 12:57 pm:
Brandon: We have never met, yet you have become our second son. With hope in our hearts, we have searched through dense forest, impassible fields and winding trails. We have held our breath, prayed for help, and cried tears from the heart. You have quietly taught us that we are all one family. We now hold your parents and sisters in our hearts and will support them in the days ahead, as families always do. Our lives will never be the same, now that we have known you. Know that you are loved and that we will never forget you.
Posted by Kelly O'Patrick from Oshawa, Ontario on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 12:52 pm:
To Mr. & Mrs. Crisp and Family:

I would like to extend my deepest and heartfelt condolences to you during this difficult time of tragedy and sorrow. I pray that God may watch over you closely through this time and in the days to follow.

I followed this story closely and thought about you, your family and your son on a daily basis, and had hoped ever so much that your son would be returned home safely to you. I'm so very sorry from the bottom of my heart that this did not happen.

May God bless you, and your son, who is in the loving care of God's hands now, and may your son rest in peace.
Posted by STEVE M. from Ottawa, ON on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 12:15 pm:
Mr. and Mrs. Crisp,

All Canadians wish to share in your immeasurable grief at this tragic time. We realize our loss, too, as we comtemplate the significant contribution Brandon may have made to our country and even to the world had he lived a full life.

May God give you and your daughters the strength and courage to persevere. Brandon will never be forgotten, and hopefully your cherished memories of him will eventually enable you once again to smile.

May God bless you!

STEVE M.

Posted by Janette Malcolm from Barrie, Ont on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 11:07 am:
Brandon's story has touched my heart as I deal with my own son who like many growing children rebel against parental control. My heartfelt sympathy as you deal with your loss and come to terms with your grief. Know that we grieve with you for the loss of your child.
Posted by Christine Williamson from The Barrie Advance on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 10:49 am:
I was so upset to hear the news. I am praying for you and your family. I just can't imagine what you must be going through. I have only one child, Madison 9 yrs old and her step-brother was murdered 2 yrs ago at the age of 14. She has been asking so many questions but at the same time seems to understand so much more than I do.
She too would like me to send you her prayers. She has been at Season's for Grieving Children for the past 2 yrs and really recommends it for your kids.

Love Christine and Madison
Posted by Bruce and Alisa Bester from Walkerton on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 10:30 am:
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you. We don't personally know you but we have a son your sons age and know that all you can do is try your best as parents, as you did. We will pray for you.
Posted by connie arteaga from barrie on on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 10:25 am:
My thought and prayers are with you.We are very sorry for your loss.We hope God give you strength and peace to cope in this very sad time.Connie,Raffael &family
Posted by Tom & Sharon Sewell & Family from Innisfil, Ont. on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 10:06 am:
Steve, Angelika and family,

Our deepest heartfelt sympathies to you and your family during this darkest time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find strength and comfort in each other.
God Bless and take care.

The Sewell family
Posted by Ernest Schmidt from Otawa Ontario on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 9:41 am:
To Brandon's Family:

I heard the news wednesday on the radio - my heart immediately sank. I was one of the thousands of Canadians who were following the story everyday.
I did not know Brandon or any of you but this is a very sad day. I have been greiving terribly over his loss.

I hope there is some comfort in knowing that many Canadians like myself were very concerned about Brandon's well being and wanted this to end with
a happy reunion with his family.- a loving family who was looking out for his best interests and, like my parents, were doing the best parenting job they saw fit or could do.

I only wish that there was something I or others could have done to prevent this tragedy.

My heartfelt sympathy is extended to you. November 5th to me is not the day after Mr. Obama's election but rather it is the day that a tragic ending devasted the lives of Brandon's family and friends. I will always think of Brandon when someone talks to me about Mr. Obama's victory.

To Brandon - Rest in Peace with the thought that thousands of Canadians mourn you not being here with us. You must have been one special kid - We all miss you.

Ernest Schmidt
Ottawa Canada
ernest.schmidt@sympatico.ca
Posted by Renee Gillingham from Port Carling, ON on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 9:29 am:
Our deepest condolences go out to the Crisp Family and friends, we too have 2 sons that play xbox alot, and we too have grounded them from it, and they have left many many times angry, but have come back, but sadly for you this did not happen, we are so sorry for your loss, and hope that you do not blame yourselves. You did what any parent would have done.
Renee, Jeff & Family
Posted by Kayla from Newfoundland. on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 9:00 am:
My prays and thought's has bee going out to you since Brandon's disappearence.
My heartfelt sympathies to the family, and my prayers are with you in this time of sadness.
You are not to blame.
God Bless and take care.
r.i.p Brandon..
Posted by Patricia.,mom of three , from Victoria . B.C. on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 1:58 am:
My deepest sympathy,, the loss is heartbreaking, but, NOT YOUR FAULT!
Two of our kids are teen boys, and we have done EXACTLY the same thing as you have done, not regarding video games, but other issues. We have just been lucky, our son came back,, cold and wet, but alive. Fate just did not work that way for you or your son, but , know this, it is no ones fault.
I can only imagine how your heart is bleeding, but he went in his sleep, and he has awoken somewhere wonderful.

My very deepest condolences, and prayers for support to you and your family and friends. May God hold you together in the palm of his hand and carry you through this the darkest of any valley any parent faces.
Posted by JJI from Calgary, AB (formerly Innisfil, Ont) on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 1:31 am:
I have a three-year old blond son. I can only imagine the nightmare you must be experiencing. My very deepest sympathies. I hope you come to understand your boy is at peace now and he would want you to be also.
Posted by Rebecca from Mississauga on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 1:24 am:
To the parents and sisters of Brandon,

I was so sad to hear there was no happy ending. I am so sorry for your loss.
Posted by MaryAnn Moore from Alliston,Ont on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 12:46 am:
May you find peace within your grief for a lost son. Our thoughts and tears are with your family.
Posted by Scott M from Ottawa on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at 12:40 am:
My heart is broken for you. I'm about twice Brandon's age but as someone who suffers from depression and was missing for a couple of days a little more than a month ago, my attempt to cope with my pain, I feel a particular sadness about what's happened.

I've followed this story with prayerful hope of a happy ending. It's clear that Brandon was a good kid and was/is deeply loved. He knew that before your argument that day. He knew that during the argument. He knew it afterwards, too.

I weep for you; Steve and Angelika, I know as parents you tried to do the right thing. No doubt it is small comfort at this time but please know that you are being prayed for by people in all corners of this country.

God bless you, Brandon.
Posted by Heather Harris & Family from Barrie, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 11:06 pm:
My family's thoughts and prayers have been with you since Brandon's disappearance. Now our greatest sympathies to you and your family on such a tragic loss.

As a mother of 3 young children, my heart goes out to your whole family and what you must be feeling. Remember to take comfort from each other and the outpouring of support from so many people.

You are all in our prayers and may Brandon rest in peace.

Geof, Heather & Family
Posted by ricky from sault ste marie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:47 pm:
im sad to hear about the loss of such a young child deepest condolences to the Crisp Family
Posted by TD from Barrie,Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:42 pm:
Deepest Condolences sent out to the Crisp family. We at Georgian College in Orillia are thinking of you all! Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Posted by Antonio Rodrigues from Atlanta USA on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:38 pm:
My deepest condolence for the Brandon's family,may God give the power and peace in your heart.
Posted by William Martin from Erie, Pennsylvania on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:22 pm:
I am deeply sorry for your loss, as an avid gamer myself at the age of 27, This has had an enormous impact on me, when I first heard about him leaving, I wept openly, praying that he was found and returned home safely. If there is anything the family needs, I only live about 4 hours away in Pennsylvania, I would be honored to do anything i can, once again my deepest condolences for you and your family
Posted by Silvia Lamb from Barrie, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:08 pm:
I would like to express to the Crisp family that I am extremely sad and sorry for their loss. I did not know Brandon, but had him in my thoughts and in my prayers every day and will continue to pray for his family and friends.
Posted by Duguay & Fraser Family from Barrie, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:05 pm:
Our deepest condolence for you and your family. We pray for you to stay strong together as a family. Your last memory may not be a good one, but there were 15 years of memories that will help you through this. We move on but will never forget.
Posted by Jeff @ Barb Scott from Renfrew Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:22 pm:
Our thoughts are with you at this time, of sorrow, and for Brandon.we have never met but you will always be in our thoughts, god bless you my son.....
Posted by chantelle from Regina on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:22 pm:
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I have 3 sons and I cant imagine that happening. My oldest son is also into his games and I made me open my eyes about all kinds of addictions. Please know that god is with you right now. And I am praying for you and your family. love from my family
Posted by Alex Warton from Sydney, Australia on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:12 pm:
my deepest condolences to your family in this hard time. Let it be known that your son and your families trials have touched the hearts of those across the world, as someone of the same age as Brandon, seeing this tragedy happen, both to a fellow gamer, his family is incredibly sad and i give my utmost condolences to you and your family.
R.I.P Brandon crisp
Posted by Kellie O'Neill from Oshawa, ON. on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 8:57 pm:
This message is for Brandon Crisp's parents, siblings, friends and members of his family:

I would like to take this opportunity to extend my hearfelt condolences to you during this difficult time of sadness and loss.

I cannot imagine what you must be going through -- although I want you to know how very sorry I am for your loss, and for all the turmoil that you've experienced in past weeks. I'm sure you feel as though your world has been turned inside out and upside down.

I didn't know Brandon or have any connections to him personally, yet a huge part of me felt the need to write to you to express my thoughts, because I was so touched by your son's/family's story...

This could have happened to anyone and I truly sympathize with your circumstance, from the bottom of my heart -- You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time of tragedy and will continue to be.

I am not a parent, so I cannot nearly claim to know what you've experienced as parents (and certainly will continue to experience), but as a Teacher, I know how challenging young people can be during this day and age. Life with children and youth is unpredictable, to say the least.

Mr. and Mrs. Crisp: I hope that you do not feel guilty -- You made the best choice you knew at the time, given the circumstance - THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

I believe that everything happens for a reason, though sometimes things happen that do not make sense or that do not seem reasonable after they've happened...

Nevertheless, this is in God's hands; And it is important to remember that God never gives us anything he feels we cannot deal with.

It's easy to lay blame onto others or unto ourselves in order to attempt to numb the pain, but I ask that you please try not to carry self-guilt or resentment of others with you through the rest of your life... Pleae try to find meaning in this story, as unfortunate and meaningless as Brandon's death was, I know -- But for Brandon's sake, for your own sake, and for God's sake, please try to find closure: the closure that you need to go on living whole- heartedly.

If you are experiencing any of these feelings and emothions, I pray that you please forgive yourself, even though you can never forget.

Please try to put your faith and trust in loved ones, and especially in God, to guide you through your grief, and to help support you through your future endeavors, and amidst your journey through life.
May God Bless you, your family, and friends during this difficult time.

My hope for each and every one of you is that one day, when you're ready, you will be able to smile, be happy, and move forward the way Brandon would have wanted you to.

R.I.P., Brandon Crisp....



Yours Sincerely,

Kellie O'Neill
Posted by Joe Mercer from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 8:53 pm:
There are not enough words to properly explain the grief I am feeling over your loss.
I am so sorry it had to end this way.
Brandon will forever have a place my family's heart, and we will never forget him.
Be strong, and know one day you will be able to hold him again.
Posted by Alex from Sydney, Australia on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 8:49 pm:
my deepest condolences to your family in this hard time.
Posted by isabel perez jorgeperez from 166 king edward av. toronto on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 8:38 pm:
sorry for yuor loss all my heart whis you i loss my son 3month hago i no what yuo feel sebastin perez is my son he loss his live in muskuka river god bless yuo whis my haert 416 422 29 64 my deepest condolences
Posted by Julianne Wilson from Pentenguishene, ON on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 8:26 pm:
May your son rest in peace. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by Sharon King from Chilliwack, BC on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 7:40 pm:
To Brandon's loved ones, my deepest sincere condolences on the loss of your beautiful boy.

Rest in peace forever dear Brandon in the strong and loving arms of the angels.
Posted by John, Laurie, Rachel, James from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 7:28 pm:
Words are insufficient at a time like this. Know though that we are thinking of you at this time of terrible tragedy. We can think of no words of comfort to offer but join with thousands of others from near and far in the hope of better days for your family.
Posted by Phil Ricci from Pickering on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 6:19 pm:
Angelika, Steve, family and friends of Brandon,
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Please know that Brandon has touched the hearts and minds of countless thousands of people. We are all thinking of him and are here to support you.
As a teacher, I try to instill in students the importance of safety and the security of those who care about them. Brandon has done this for so many adults and children alike.
I hope that you find peace in the laughter, love and happy times that you all shared with him.
Posted by Sylvia and Clint Hunter from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 5:24 pm:
Words cannot express how terrible we feel for the loss of Brandon. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. May you find the strength you need in the days to come. I will always be here if you need a friend to talk to.
Posted by George Geczy from Ancaster on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 4:48 pm:
Brandon has touched more people than he could have ever imagined. Our thoughts and condolences are with you in these difficult times.
Posted by The Thomas Family from Midhurst on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 4:43 pm:
Words cannot express our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your beautiful son. I can only hope that in time you will be able to find some peace in the wonderful memories you have of him. Our thoughts are with you...

Amanda, Richard
Daelin & Kaeleb
Posted by Maureen Deneka from Arborg Manitoba on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 4:42 pm:
Although I didn't know your son, I am terribly sorry for your loss. i have been following this since the beginning, I have been llighting candles and even took to wearing a gold St Christopher's medal (protects when travelling)that was given to me by my mother in hopes that Brandon would find his way home. I am truly, deeply sorry that it turned out this way. Please know that many people are hurting along with you and that we wish we could help in some way. all of my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and for Brandon.
Posted by Julia Thomas from County of Simcoe on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 4:41 pm:
Angelika,
No words can possible express how much we here at the County feel for you. Our hearts ache for you and your family. We are all just sick here - after weeks of silent prayers and words of hope we now turn our prayers to you in this dark time. I know your lives will never be the same but you will go on because you have to.
Wish I was there to give you a hug but I'm sure you will have people there to support you. When someday you find yourselve alone know we are in your thoughts and you can always call...
Love from Julia, Bonnie, Flo, Sally, Cindy and everyone who has had the pleasure to work with you...
Posted by George Geczy from Ancaster on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 4:29 pm:
Brandon has touched more people than he could have ever imagined. Our thoughts and condolences are with you in these difficult times.
Posted by Kim and Dan Harrison and Family from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 4:23 pm:
As a family who has lost a son also, we know and feel your heartache and pain. There are no words that can express our sorrow enough, however we found that the outpouring of support from family and friends at a time like this is very comforting and we reach out to you for anything you may need. Brandon is in the hands of God and our hearts are with you always.
Posted by Jon Donaldson from Mississauga, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 4:11 pm:
May he rest in peace. This was a tragic story that touched people from coast to coast and my condolences go out to his family.
Posted by Christine & Rick Humber from Innisfil Journal, Innisfil ON on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:54 pm:
Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless Brandon, you and your family.
Posted by Julie, Hugh and family from Dalston on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:48 pm:
Angelika, Steve and family: We are just so, so sorry that Brandon's disappearance had such an unthinkable ending.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Posted by Mimi Lawrenson from the Huntsville Forester from Huntsville on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:44 pm:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this unimaginable time of loss. No words can express the depth of emotion this has stirred in each of us; Hold tight to eachother and the wonderful memories of Brandon. Keep holding on.
Posted by Amanda Walton-Gaston from Algonquin Park on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:36 pm:
Brandon, I did not know you but now I do and will forever remember who you are to us all.
Your an earth angel taken so young but an Archangel you will become as God takes you under his wing to battle the demons that live amoung us.

Although very difficult why God would allow a child to be taken I believe his mission for you in heaven is far more important then one we could imagine here on earth

Fight for us Brandon as we need angels like you battling the evil of this land that God one day will win back as he sends Jesus to set up peace on earth for us all to enjoy.

I mourn for your family and the tears and pain they shed, please use your heavenly strength to guide them to peace and make them know you love them more now then you could ever think possible for the life they gave you here on earth preparing for the Kingdom of Heaven when it was time our Heavenly Father called you home.

You will forever and always be in my heart, a stranger, you’ve touched so deeply.

Posted by Adele Philp from Barrie, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:21 pm:
Dear Angelika and your family, words can not express mine and my family condolences for you and your family. Brandon has been in my thoughts and will continue to be for years ahead. As a parent I can not imagine a tragedy greater. I pray for your continued stength and as well for your family. Brandon will be missed dearly, but will always stay alive within your heart and your memories and also for thousands or people in which he has touched. What a special boy
With our deepest heartfelt sympathies,
Your friend Adele, Mike, Johnathan and Riley
Posted by Diana Crabtree from Alliston on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:19 pm:
Angelika, Steve and family.

The love and support from friends, family and the community shows how much everyone cared about Brandon. Brandon will always be remembed in our hearts.

Those we love remain with us
For love itself lives on,
And cherished memories never fade
Because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
More than a thought apart,
Far as long as there is memory,
They'll live on in the heart.

My deepest sympathies.

Posted by Christina from Toronto on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:16 pm:
My thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posted by Brenda L. McGary from Huntsville Forester, on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:12 pm:
I wish your family all the strength in the world, Remember the good times and cherish each other to the fullest.
Posted by Stacey Gilli from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:09 pm:
Angelika, my thoughts and prayers have been with you and Steve and the girls from day one and will continue as you travel through the dark days ahead.
May you find comfort in knowing that you are surrounded by a country who have embraced Brandon as a symbol of what a teenager is today. Brandon's game playing and addiction issues have led many families to have meaningful dialogue - and has changed, I'm sure, many lives. His death shall not be in vaiin.
May he rest in peace with The Lord until you meet again.

Posted by Crystal from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:03 pm:
We extend our thoughts and prayers to the Crisp family. Brandon will always be remembered and be in our hearts.
Posted by Cindy Jost & Family from Angus, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:03 pm:
As a parent of two children we can only imagine your sorrow.

Hold tight to memories for comfort and know that you now have an angel watching over you and your family.

Our prayers and thoughts are with you

Cindy, Phil, Anthony & Hunter

Posted by Maureen (MJ) Christie & Family from Barrie, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 3:03 pm:
This is a terrible loss to Angelika, Steve, Brandon's older sister and of course his twin sister. There is no greater loss than that of a child. Angelika, we're all here for you, always

The streets of heaven are over crowded with the wings of angels who have left us far too soon.

My family wishes The Crisp family, their friends and the students of St. Joe's high school our deepest sympathy during this terrible time.

May we all hug our loved ones that much tighter today and always.
Posted by Jackie Jones from G Bugs Press on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 2:53 pm:
We extend our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to everyone in the Crisp family at this very sad, sad time.
I know personally that although this is a difficult time - something good will come from the name of Brandon Crisp. His name will be remembered in the hearts of thosands. Parents, teenagers and young kids all over the world will know Brandon lft them something; a message, a lesson and the realization that coming together as one in prayer and kindness really does make a difference. God Bless, Henry and Jackie Jones - G.Bugs Press
Posted by Karen and Reno Aquino and family from Stoney Creek on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 2:50 pm:
I am an employee of Metroland West - The Hamilton Spectator and a parent also. Please accept our family's profound condolences as you go through this most tragic time in your family's life. I have 2 sons who are avid players and your story has touched our family profoundly. We have all cried over the loss and the tragedy you are going through has left a strong message to my sons. May the good memories keep him close to your hearts.
Posted by Annie Harvey from Alliston Herald on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 2:43 pm:
My husband & I have been keeping you all in our prayers from the beginning. We are still praying for all of you. Our hearts go out to you all as you deal with the loss of such a special boy. With love...
Posted by Jackie Goubault from The Hamilton Spectator on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 2:08 pm:
Believe in yourself - in the power you have to control your own life, day by day...Beleive in the strength that you have deep inside, and your faith will help show you the way...Believe in tomorrow and what it will bring - let a hopeful heart carry you through - For things will work out if you trust and believe. There's no limit to what you can do -
Posted by from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 2:02 pm:
As a parent, my heart goes out to you. We do the best we can & what we feel would be best for our children, I don't understand why this happened. I wish the outcome had not been so tragic. Hug your girls and keep your memories of Brandon in your hearts.
Our deepest sympathies...
Posted by Karin Jacoby-Johnstone from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 2:00 pm:
Although it's difficult today to see beyond your sorrow, may your memories help comfort you through the tomorrows.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
"Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight." God bless you Brandon.
Posted by Terasa Rausch from Metroland Corporate on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 1:57 pm:
My thoughts are with your family. I have been following the search since day one and I can't begin to imagine that pain your family has encountered. I never had the privlage of meeting brandon but may he rest in peace and your family memories live on forever.
Posted by Melisa Mehic from Oakville On on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 1:53 pm:
As a mother of 4 teenage boys, I feel the most important thing we can do for our children is love them. Brandon was loved and he knew that. We try to protect them and do what we feel is best for them at the time. Know that many are sending your family their love and prayers. Brandon became everyone’s child; his life has touched many, if only to remind us all of how lucky we are to be blessed with family and friends for the time we have them.

Our hearts go out to you and yours,

Melisa, Jake, Adam, Mason and Marcus
Posted by VICTORIA LUBITZ from BARRIE on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 1:06 pm:
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=35046001283&ref=nf
PLEASE JOIN THIS AND PASS IT ALONG
IN MEMORY OF BRANDON CRISP
Posted by S. Sweet from Smiths Falls on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 12:56 pm:
To the Crisp family,
Our family is truly sorry to hear of your loss. There are never enough words to express one's sympathy. Hold onto and cherish all your memories.
Posted by Susan Duguay from Metroland-Toronto on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 12:28 pm:
The prayers of many are with you.
Posted by Jennifer Saunders-Fleurant from Innisfil on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 12:15 pm:
Both of our families are heartsick to hear of your loss. You are a family of love, kindness and compassion and this loss is devastating. Please know that you are in our hearts, souls and prayers throughout this time of loss.
The Saunders and Fleurant Families
Posted by Betsy Bertram from Mississauga, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 11:36 am:
To the Crisp family,
I can't even imagine the depth of pain that has filled your hearts. What you have experienced is something that has filled all of us with dread and compassion. We all share tears with you.
I have had the same arguments with my teenagers about spending too much time gaming and I assure you that thousands of parents have too. It is a bone of contention with so many families.
There is so much love and support around for you with family, friends and thousands of strangers. It will be this love that will somehow propell you forward. The love for your son will live on forever because that is where you will always carry him in your hearts.
Sending you all a big hug.
A fellow Torstar friend. xx
Posted by Tracy Thomson from Torstar Media Group Television, Toronto, Ont on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 11:25 am:
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Crisp family during this difficult time.
You now have a special angel looking over you.
With heartfelt sympathies,
The Thomson Family
Posted by Todd James Yuill from Toronto/ cep591G on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 11:00 am:
My heart goes out to you, please know that I have been requesting prayer at St Dunstan of Canterbury Anglican Parish

May the Lord be with you at this time.
Posted by Amy Furness (O'Brecht) from Red Deer, AB on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:13 am:
It brings me so much pain to begin to understand what your family must be going through. My thoughts are with all of you in this tough struggle.
Posted by KP from scarborough on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 10:04 am:
My heart goes out to your family at this time of sorrow. As a mother of a 16 and 12 year old boys, I feel for your loss of Brandon. Parenting is challenging in today's environment and the influences of modern technology. You both did your best and should not take any blame for what if scenarios. My condolences to your family in this difficult period and hope that time will help with your healing. A colleague from the Torstar family.
Posted by Kerry Close from 2022 Headon rd , Burlington on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:54 am:
May God bless Brandon and the entire Crisp family .. thinking and praying for you
Posted by The Thomsons from Oshawa on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:42 am:
We offer our condolences to Brandon's friends and family. Best wishes at this very difficult time.

The Thomsons.
Posted by Emily & Wes Ayranto from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:37 am:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all your family.
Stay strong and remember all the laughter and happy moments you had with Brandon.
Our deepest condolences to you all and take care of each other.
Posted by Dina Bairos from Toronto, Ontario on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:32 am:
Dear Crisp Family:
My heartfelt sympathies to the family.
My prayers are with you at this time of so much sadness. Brandon was a beautiful child.
God Bless you Brandon.
DB
Posted by Denise from Scarborough on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:32 am:
I am the mother of a 14 year old boy who plays the same game that Brandon did. We have the same fights at home over him playing too much. My heart breaks for you over this tragic outcome of unfortuntate events. My son, daughter and husband wish to convey our deepest sympathy. I hope the love within your family will give you the strength to carry on.
Posted by Donna Tell from Barrie on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:24 am:
Dear Angelika, Steve & family;
My heartfelt sympathy for your loss of a very special boy. I hope your memories of fun, laughter & happy times with Brandon will overshadow this horrible, life altering tragedy. No words can express what is in my heart except my prayers, love & support are with you now, tomorrow & forever. Please take care of one another.
Posted by Kelly Elliott from Mitchell on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:23 am:
I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies are extended to Brandon's family and friends.
Posted by Donna Rains from Ajax on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 9:22 am:
The Crisp Family,

My heartfelt condolences go out to all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May you find strength & courage in each other.

God Bless, Donna Rains

Posted by Chris Weir and Family from The Hamilton Spectator Hamilton, Ontario. on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 8:51 am:
Dear Crisp family,
We have been following the news of Brandon.
My heart goes out to you all. I know how devastating it is to loose a child. It is the worst pain any parent can endour. We send our love and support to you all. If it helps at all. Please seek out The bereaved familys group, it will help to talk about him. Our deepest sympathy to you all. Chris and paul Weir
Posted by Ronda Feigen from Toronto on Friday, November 7, 2008 at 7:11 am:
Dear Crisp family,
Brandon will forever hold a place in all our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by David Thompson from Toronto on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 11:30 pm:
Rest in Peace Brandon. My heart goes out to all the Crisp family. Brandon you lived a full 15 years and we can all have some peace now knowing you are in a better place where you'll be watching over us all I'm sure. Your parents will miss you, you left us so soon, but not a soul will ever forget you. You were a special kid. One can only imagine the courage you showed all alone in your final moments, take care care big guy, you're home now.
Posted by Sam Srouji from AMBASSADOR EXECUTIVE LIMOUSINE on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 10:09 pm:
Steve & Angelika, this Sam The Limo that took you to the CBC last week, My heart with you, my family and I sending you our deepest condolences to you, your daughters and family, May god be with you and fill your hearts with patience, sympathy and love. I AM OFFERING YOUR FAMILY MYCADILLAC LIMO FOR THE FUNEREAL OF BRANDON FREE OF CHARGE, I WILL STOP BY YOUR PLACE SOMETIMES THIS WEEK SAM SROUJI, 705-730-5770
Posted by Michelle from Kitchener, ON on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 7:15 pm:
Dear Crisp Family,

Your son looked like such a nice boy and its not fair that this has happened to him or his family. Just know that thousands of people are thinking of your family through this unbearable time. I am praying for all of Brandon's family and friends. He will always be remembered.
Posted by Elise Allain & Family from Barrie on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 6:42 pm:
We are here for support for the long road ahead. Our deepest sympathies to your family.
Posted by Hugh Brown & Family from Oro-Medonte on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 4:29 pm:
My family and I would like to extend our sincerest sympathies to Angelica and the rest of the Crisp family.

Having worked with Angelica for many years, what has happened has really affected us deeply.

It was not the outcome that we were hoping for or expecting.

As a father of three, I am not sure how I would have handled the situation described and don't believe there is any clear or obvious way to deal with such things.

Our deepest condolences.
Posted by Darlene Parent from Brampton, Ontario on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 4:20 pm:
My deepest sympathies to Angelika, Steve and the family. As a mother of 3 I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you all the strength to get through this terrible time.
Posted by Lynda Sinclair from Huntsville on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 3:58 pm:
I have thought of you every day since your son went missing and prayed for his safe return. I am so very sorry for your loss. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Catherine Haller from Cookstown on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 3:54 pm:
A Fairy's Song to the Dew
© Rich Roach, 2001

"Happy the blade that wears your hue,"
the fairy sang to the tear-filled dew,
"for love rests there, in each orb's gleam.
Oh, look! the sun's resplendent beam
has kissed your pearly tears away,
that all might share your love of day."

Your grief is your own, but you are not alone. We are all in an embrace of humanity, sending you love, sympathy and prayers.
Posted by Tina Turley from Huntsville Ontario on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 2:08 pm:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family

Take Care
Posted by tammy and jamie hoffmann from courtice ontario on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 1:33 pm:
we have followered this story from day one and are heart goses out to the crisp family me beaning a parent of four boys and one girl is heart breaker and my daughter is the same age brandon. my deepest thought are with you all
Posted by Fiona Haller from Barrie on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 12:33 pm:
Such devastating news. My family's thoughts are with you during this time... there are no words for the loss of a child. Our deepest sympathies.
Posted by Trevor Smith from Barrie on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 12:09 pm:
There are no words that can express my sympathies and sorrow at the loss to the Crisp Family and this shaken community.
Posted by Patrick Cooper from Huntsville on Thursday, November 6, 2008 at 11:37 am:
My deepest condolences go out to the Crisp family and their friends.